My space dilemma?

I was looking at my boyfriend of 5 years myspace page the other day.He says its purely for song writing but I found loads of women on his friends page, many of them half naked.I also saw he had been emailing girls he knew when we first started dating, but who he lost touch with-or so I though!!This upset me, I felt like he was hiding things from me and that he doesnt find me sexy anymore.When I spoke to him about it he went nuts saying he;d done nothing wrong-even though hes always telling me that Im the only girl he finds attractive.

Do you think im in the wrong to be still upset and confused about it all-I know hes not cheating because we work togethr and live together and basically are never apart but if he had nothing to feel bad about then why didnt he mention it to me as I do to him when someone I used to know contacts me?Am I right to be sad or just being stupid?

Sensible answers only please!!!

My space dilemma?

Your not wrong at all.... my girlfriend did the same thing to me, and i was mad at her to start with, but after i realized what had happened i figured out it was a good thing, because i didnt want to put my self in the situation that would lead to cheating or anything.. and myspace can become that very easy if you let it.

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Well I will say you should be mad cause that is where it starts. I feel your pain cause I've been there%26amp; yes it makes you feel like you are just there %26amp; not enough for him. I pray you%26amp; your guy can work this out cause the internet can cause alot of break ups with couples.

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Your probably over reacting. He is probably not cheating on you, he probably just had many freinds that were girls before you started dating. And plus, It's myspace. nothing on there is serious.

cesar

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I,ve been in a similar situation and it dont half confuse you eh? I dont think you are wrong to be upset it just brings out your inner insecurities, he needs to reassure you that he wants to be with you,how would he feel if it was you checking out x partners? you need to continue to talk this thru, good luck! xxx

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If he has nothing to hide, then he would give you his password to myspace,yahoo.. etc.. the same goes for you. See if that is an option.

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Ok this might take a minute to read but you will be glad you did....first off let me tell you that the internet is a major ingedient for disaster just because most people live in a made up world on here. My space is no different and in fact is much worse. Not to take his side but people always send friend requests to people they do not know and some of the women on there are just hidious. They do not like when someones profile says taken because that just makes them bug your man more. Now as far as your side he should not accept these friend requests it is wrong. My advice is you should encourage him to show more pics of you and him or write a blog to show you guys are happy as can be. If he does not do this your problem is solved he is not worth it and his site is for more than song writting.......good luck hun do not let my space ruin what you guys have like it did mine....god bless

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As long as his messaging is to just stay in contact with his friends then it is fine, even if they are girls. BTW do you think he is only attracted to you? He is a man and you need to face facts that all men and women are attracted to other people... it is just a question of their character and if they act on those attractions. It is not worth the fight.....like you said you work and live together so you have to give him some space. He didnt do anything wrong unless he is soliciting hookups on myspace.

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Get a grip honey - he's a guy!

My space dilemma?

These things aren't always about you. Throughout your question, all I'm getting is "me, me, me" and conveniently glossing over what he's said to you.

It's MySpace, it's traditionally for music but loads of people are using it to hook up. However, that doesn't mean that EVERYONE is or that they have ulterior motives.

I have a page for music, a lot of my friends have pages and my girl has a page all with attractive members of the opposite sex. Now she gets hit on all the time by sleazy guys asking her to marry them or send them naked pictures. Just because people ask that doesn't mean she's going to do it, does it?

Even her ex boyfriend contacts her, it's not something she's ever told me, just something I know to be true as I can see comments he has left her. It doesn't bother me in the slightest as I know I'm the one she wants and that she'd never cheat on me.

Stop snooping and be confident in the fact that he wants you and no other. Have faith in him and trust what he tells you. It's so much more rewarding!!

My space dilemma?

listen to jennifer a's opinion.

its good advice and i would say the same.....

ps no you are not sad.

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It's only natural for a guy to have an interest in pictures of other women. Maybe you are making him feel ashamed, which is why he is hiding it from you. You have to understand that men can see women in two different ways, and the way your bf see's you is by far the better way. He chose to be with you because he thinks you are better than just sex. He chose you because he finds you sexy, and intelligent, and he cares about you, but if you continue to get jealous of these images or friends, you will only end up pushing him away. The behaviour of a jealous person is not sexy at all, and he will see this. Just stop worrying, and learn to have fun again because that is what your boyfriend craves, but he craves it with you