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okay me and this guy met on vacation and we had sex the 5th night. after that, we only had sex one other time, but other then that we hung out with people without doing anything. we live four hours away, and i happen to be going to college near him in 4 months. we've kept in contact for 8 months, and we've seen eachother twice after the cruise, and we havent done anything. recently, we were on the phone and he was talking about how i never write him on myspace, and he said "let's keep this long distance relationship going"

is he using me? or does he want a real relationship when i get there because he likes me?

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using you for what? if it where a sex thing he would've tried when you guys saw each other. obviously he likes you if he's still talking to you after 8 months, talk to him about it.

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I think you should simply ask him what he wants from you

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More detail hun. What's his age? where does he work, what are his goals, what are his intentions, ask him speak your mind, write him on myspace, why is anyone business what youo have to say to him, maybe a hello, but my space is a bar on a computer, be truthful, and remember men are men and if you expect a young guy to not express physical interest in other women when you four hours away, you are dead wrong, not all men cheat but when you are single and there are no labels then there no limits unless you create them together. I would say be straight up and ask, the only thing you might get is something you either do or dont want to heasr but that's life my dear.